Monthly Archives: February 2018

Clarify your coaching

Each one of us is a coach.

We coach our teammates in getting started and handling challenges that crop up while building their businesses. This is an integral part of building a team.

Here is the key question: What is the one sentence or 5-6 key words that describe your advice and approach?

Here are some questions to explore that idea.

Think about teammates (or sideline) distributors whom you have advised. What compliments have they given you regarding your past advice?

Do you emphasize short-term results or long-term outlook? Which one is more important?

Do you use the flyers, videos, and other tools your company provides, or do you make your own?

Do you have a my-way-or-the-highway approach, or do you discuss the next steps (and get agreement) before giving the next assignment?

How often will you meet in person/message/discuss via telephone or videoconferencing?…. a set time (every 7 days?) or as soon as they complete the assignment?

If the coaching client asks you to hold them accountable, what do you say and do if they don’t meet the goals set in the previous session? How many times will you set a new session if the previous session’s goals are not met?

Do you respond quickly to questions/updates between sessions, or do you wait until the next session?

When will the coaching end?  … a set number of sessions, predetermined length of time, specific goals being met, a set number of missed sessions or incomplete assignments, or a breach of the initial agreement?

Whatever your answers, I suggest you discuss your approach with anyone who requests coaching from you. The conversation will clarify whether the guidance they seek is a good match for your approach.

–LYnn Selwa, “The Rocket Science Coach” ™

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The bright side

My neighbors were noisy early this morning. I awoke suddenly in the dark and reached for the clock. 5:04am. I could hear the muted thump of a stereo system and feel the bed shake nearly continuously. (and when I discover which of the 20+ flats it was coming from, I will talk to them during the day, when everyone is calm.)

Needless to say, that was the unplanned early end of my night.

Being up early is unusual for me. You see, like many people reading this blog, I earn Roll-Over Money. I’m a night owl by inclination, which means I would rather stay up late than get an early start on the day.

So being jerked awake earlier than planned can put me in a foul mood.

To turn around a state of mind that was quickly sliding toward seething anger, I literally asked myself, “How can I take advantage of being up early?”

Two answers popped into my mind: submit the product orders that I had planned to do today, and post a photo/Facebook Live if the sunrise ends up looking spectacular.

I submitted the product orders…and it was still “yesterday” at the company headquarters, due to the difference in time zones. Who says time travel isn’t possible?

And the sunrise was spectacular. Hence a photo of the vivid orange and yellow painted sky, which my social media followers have been enjoying for more than 5 hours.

Here’s my question for you: When things go awry, how can you turn it around?

After all, Ma Ingalls has a philosophy in the “Little House on the Prairie” books: There is no loss without some gain.

Today I’m glad I was able to think on the bright side, like the pioneers in those books.

(or, if you prefer music over prose, Monty Python has a song along those lines. You’re welcome for the “ear worm.”)

–LYnn Selwa, “The Rocket Science Coach” ™

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Crippled by humility?

If you have women on your team, do you see them acting in these ways:

Afraid to speak up because of possible negative reactions.

Feeling guilty for asking for the sale or taking time for themselves.

Shying away from mentioning their accomplishments.

Author Kathy Caprino suggests they might be affected by a destructive view of humility.

If those sound familiar, or if you find those actions baffling, I suggest you read Caprino’s article to understand your teammate’s behavior better. She might find the article helpful as well.

–LYnn Selwa, “The Rocket Science Coach” ™

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Do-Over!

This week I saw a funny meme in social media.

The general message was something like this:

I think January was a 30 day free trial. Who wants to start the year over on Feb 1st?

And I though, That message has some wisdom.

Jeffrey Combs of Golden Mastermind Seminars taught me to realize January 1st is a random day that we agree to start the year. It can come loaded with expectations, both helpful and destructive. And we can restart our business year whenever we want.

Even the US Government allows a corporation to choose the first day of its fiscal year.

So if you didn’t meet your January goals, or you dropped one or more of your New Year’s resolutions, feel free to restart your renewed focus or activities… today or any day.

–LYnn Selwa, “The Rocket Science Coach” ™

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